Prepare To Have The Best Anal Sex Of Your Life
Sex is a procedure unto itself. First, the data told us that 57% of straight women never use a condom when having anal sex, compared to only 37% of gay men. Basically the most important element of successful anal sex is lube. The best I can suggest for spontaneous butt sex (the best surprise you never knew you needed), is to eat a healthy diet with a good amount of fiber and plenty of water.
I started my career by syndicating a sex and relationships column all over the country and I sort of became known as the East Coast Dan Savage.†I then went on to write my first gay sex book, Men Are Pigs But We Love Bacon (Kensington). Some of this sounds pretty intense, but if anal sex is something you're curious about and you feel comfortable doing it, there's no reason it can't be a fun and pleasurable time.
Of course, positions are just one aspect to having great anal sex, there's a lot more to it. That's why I recorded this podcast: To teach everything from what lube you should use to preparation tips to making it pain free and most importantly, how to ensure you have wildly satisfying, body shaking orgasms from anal sex.
As you get used to the sensations, you can start to experiment with butt plugs and anal dildo's. Do not try to hold it in. Make sure the water is moderately warm, not hot, and relax your butt. Yep, your worst fears are true: the constant pushing required to expel all of that water-logged poop can blow out the anal sphincters that keep it in, causing irreparable harm that can mess up bowel movements down the road.
If you've had a anal toy healthy bowel movement that day and you do a little external wash up (maybe put your finger inside your anus a little way while your washing), there shouldn't be more than minute fecal matter in your rectum. According to him, it would feel really good,†or at least that's what his male friends had told him based on their girlfriends' responses to anal sex.
So I'm not asking any questions that can be answered with "more lube, more patience." There's the long-term prep you do over the course of months - fingering, gradually working your way up - and the short-term prep over the course of an hour - massages, rimming, relaxing more.
After getting to know your rear parts a little better, you might feel comfortable enough to engage in anal sex with a partner. Anyone who wants to feel confident in managing their own HIV sexual health. The Speed Bump is an anal sex position that I can almost guarantee that you've never tried before.
Anal sex with a condom and plenty of lube is usually safe but there are some risks involved that need to be considered and addressed. Assuming your rectum is relatively clean, the first step to any anal encounter would be to stretch out your anus. Some people will experience a 'Å“hurts-so-good'Â type of sensation, but others might feel 'Å“bad pain'Â that feels sharp or stinging.
You'll either start to feel comfortable as the sensation normalizes or you might not be aroused or relaxed enough yet. This time your will feel resistance from your inner sphincter. The key is to allow your sphincter to relax enough so you can fit your man's penis comfortably in you.
The Leap Frog is another anal sex position that is a variation of regular Doggy style. For women, the preferred sexual position during anal sex wasn't a consideration for obvious reasons, but otherwise we asked the same set of questions. This article gives you all the information you need to take care of anal hygiene so you can relax and enjoy the pleasurable potential of anal play.